Life is Perplexing

Imagine a world, where we don't have any commitments or feelings or any sort of responsibilities? Sounds weird. Must be a silly thought though but somewhere at some point in life everyone wishes for it.

It's your life and you can live it your way. Whomever it might be, you are not on this earth to please each and everyone. Keep this in mind: I am like this and I am the way I Am. Just don't even bother about others who are unhappy with the way you are. They don't know how to see you the way you are seeing yourself.

But somewhere it keeps poking us that we cannot be happy until and unless our loved ones are happy and satisfied with the way we are. Frankly to say, no one in this world is just perfect and amazing. If everyone around you are happy with you, then you must have compromised in lot many things. And, if you do things which you like and if you be how you want to then I am sure you will have many people around you taunting/hating you.

Life is a compromise, Life is Perplexing, Life is Complicated, what not? But one thing which keeps me on a positive note is that " Life is what You make it. "

Things keep happening in life. Might be good/bad, we have to face them with a tenacious heart rather than sidestepping from it..!!

Being Humane !!!

And now we are in the year 2015. I wish everyone in this world a very HAPPY NEW YEAR and a better life and being a better Human being.

Some people might have made some resolutions and some might have shy away from it.
But, I made one. I will from now on allocate some time every week for animals. I was not so gracious towards animals till few months back. Few incidents made me take this decision and who knows I might even turn Vegan at some point of life.

To be more clear, I am planning to feed stray dogs whenever it is possible for me and I will make sure that I will allot sometime for them. I saw many street dogs on the roads searching for food, shivering in cold, drenched in the rain and even suffering from injuries. Leave about helping them out, there are quite less people to even think of doing something for them. That's why, I am planning to do how much ever I can.

I saw an episode on street dogs in one of the local news channels called TV9, regarding the Municipal people not even cared about those street dogs that, they are biting and attacking small kids and old people. Here, I just want to clear all of you one thing: NO LIVING BEING ATTACKS/HARMS US UNLESS AND UNTIL IT COMES TO THEIR SAFETY. These poor dogs are not humans to harm us for no reason. You don't have to care for them but at least let them live their life and let them have their freedom.
Few days back, I saw a kid throwing stones at a small dog near my office. I literally scolded him and warned not to repeat that again. Who knows, one day that poor girl(dog) attack that kid for throwing stones? Being so educated and civilized, we human beings commit so many mistakes. Its not those little puppies or dogs fault for attacking us. Just be friendly and try feeding them a bread slice at least. You can doubtlessly see difference in those faces. He/She will be very faithful towards you.

This is my point of view on animals. An animal will definitely not attack or harm you unless you poke them and unless it comes to their self-defense.

I am definitely doing something good for them from now on and give some hope to those hopeless poor kids(dogs).

Best Regards.

Anticipating Thoughts !!

Just sit on a chair, close your eyes, bend back and just relax. Start thinking where you were few years back.
What kind of a life we had. The days, when we did not have mobiles, when we didn't have modern technology, ego's and attitudes between two persons, pollution, fast food, etc what not, anything which is polluting human body and hurting his/her heart.
-Those were the days where we used to hang out with friends just to chit-chat, unlike updating a status on Facebook that you're with your friend at some place and chatting with some other on whats-app.
-Those were the days we used to just play games/sports, instead of playing with hearts/feelings of our loved ones.
-Those were the days, where we use to love drenching in rain in our school uniform and get cold just to stay home the next day in the name of cold.
-Those silly jokes, funny moments, gossiping, bunking classes, faking our parents signature in progress reports, games after school, cycling, etc each and every memories.
-Those were the days, where we didn't have any viruses like Swine flu, Ebola, etc.

In short- Just HAPPY DAYS.

Days changed and are changing even more. People are changing accordingly. Technology is getting rejuvenate day by day. We hardly meet our childhood friends, with whom we discovered many things and with whom we explored the heights of friendship. Distance between two souls is growing. That best friend we had once is becoming a stranger now. Whatever might be the reason, circumstances cannot be avoided.

Orkut, Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, in short social media is being just the only way to keep in touch with our friends. In fact, maintaining huge friends list in our profile is becoming vital than having those few friends whom we used to meet regularly.
None can be liable on this, as everyone is busy with their own lives and career.

I just get dumbstruck when I realize that, there are no more hang-outs but just Google hang-outs. No more groups in colleges/schools, but just in whats-app. No more pages in our lives about our memories but just in Facebook. It's no more called a photo, its Selfie.
Sometimes, I just dream of having a time machine so that, we can head to any point of our lives whenever we want to. ;)

I just hope the schools and so called international schools which we have currently, teach the kids even about human values and the importance of friends unlike just concentrating on technology and its value in future. We cannot live and share our feelings with technology but, at least those few persons in your lives make a huge difference and stand back to you and tap your shoulder.


A great poet said, " The greatest gift of life is friendship. "
Did you receive it yet?